SLOW + STILL + LISTEN

Welcome to February, my friends!

This month is pretty special to me because it mark’s the 100th anniversary of Black History Month (which is celebrated every day of every year).

That’s right Dr. Carter G. Woodson, an African American history scholar, established Black History Month as a celebration of African American life, History, and culture in February 1926. Scroll down to learn how I am using Februllage, an annual collage challenge to celebrate my ancestors during Black History Month.

How is your February going?

My February is best described by three words: SLOW, STILL, and LISTEN.

I am going SLOW as I start my days by intentionally checking in with myself. I use mindfulness (a birthright we all share) to get grounded with my self-care practices of meditation, prayer, affirmations, reiki, yoga, and/or journaling.

Going SLOW helps me lay the foundation for getting STILL a few moments during my morning, afternoon, and evening to reset and stay aware of what is happening inside and outside of me.

Taking time to go SLOW and be STILL opens my entire being to LISTEN to the wisdom that Creator and my loving + well + wise ancestors have planted in my spirit, heart, mind, body, and life.

Going SLOW, being STILL, and taking time to LISTEN to the wisdom inside has helped me honor, appreciate, and deepen my connection to and daily conversation with Creator and my ancestors, including my mom Theresa.

The time I spend with them helps me tap into their legacy of resilience. I claim and call it my ancestral legacy of resilience. Ancestral legacy of resilience is the strength of the people in our family, community, and culture who overcame adversity, faced challenges, and navigated change. They are our sheroes, heroes, and theyroes.

My ancestral connections and legacy of resilience are helping me take better care of myself and navigate the changes that are happening in America. They increase my confidence and trust in myself because I know that I know that I know I am guided, protected, and provided for by Creator and a cadre of ancestors.

Their presence reminds me to give myself more grace, release the judgments from my inner critic, face some areas of my life I have felt stuck in or shamed about, ask for help, and improve the way I manage my home and financial well-being with support from my financial advisor.

One of the most surprising parts of this experience is how inspired and energized I have been to write and create without censorship. My creativity is beautifully and joyfully SLOW. It is born when I am STILL and LISTEN to my inner wisdom. It is showing up as a new collection of digital collages called Ancestral Medicine. They represent the visual manifestation of my spoken word songs, “Ancestral Medicine” and “Theresa’s Daughter” that are featured on my debut album, Thriving Mindfully As Theresa’s Daughter. Click the buttons below to listen to both songs as you check out my digital collages below.

ANCESTRAL MEDICINE COLLECTION OF DIGITAL COLLAGES

I started creating these digital collages in January and decided to participate in Februllage, a collaboration between Edinburgh Collage Collective and the Scandinavian Collage Museum that invites collage artists to make a ‘collage a day’ throughout February using the OFFICAL WORD PROMPT CALENDAR. Read more here (based on Instagram).

I am using Februllage to create collages that honor my ancestors of African descent and the 100th anniversary of Black History Month.

Special thanks to my soul sistalove and godmother Toni for encouraging me to participate in the challenge.

I am posting my collages on Substack, LinkedIn, and Bluesky (since I stopped using Instagram last year). In a few days, I’ll start posting them on my blog.

Collage #1: Mothers and Daughters of My Rickman, Goins, Bolden, Johnson, and Gartin Womanline

This collage honors five generations of my womanline on my mother Theresa’s side. They include photos of my great-great grandmother Ida Mae Goins Bolden, great grandmother Iona Hazel Bolden Johnson King, grandmother Dorothy Mae Johnson Gartin, mother Theresa B. Gartin Leeke, and me.

It includes the Ghanaian Adinkra Fafanto symbol (resembles a butterfly) that represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using it to honor the importance and the fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

Collage #2: Polly Mary Rickman Goins’ Daughter – Ida Mae Goins Bolden

This collage honors my great-great grandmother Ida Mae Goins Bolden as Polly Mary Rickman Goins’ daughter. It includes two Ghanaian Adinkra symbols: 1) Obaatan Awaamu represents a mother’s love, care, protection, and selfless devotion and 2) Fafanto (resembles a butterfly) represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using these symbols to honor the importance and fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

Collage #3: Ida Mae Goins Bolden’s Daughter – Iona Hazel Bolden Johnson King

This collage celebrates my great grandmother Iona Hazel Bolden Johnson King as the daughter of Ida Mae Goins Bolden. It includes two Ghanaian Adinkra symbols: 1) Obaatan Awaamu represents a mother’s love, care, protection, and selfless devotion and 2) Fafanto (resembles a butterfly) represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using these symbols to honor the importance and fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

Collage #4: Iona Hazel Bolden Johnson King’s Daughter – Dorothy Mae Johnson Gartin

This collage celebrates my grandmother Dorothy Mae Johnson Gartin as Iona Hazel Bolden Johnson King’s daughter. It includes two Ghanaian Adinkra symbols: 1) Obaatan Awaamu represents a mother’s love, care, protection, and selfless devotion and 2) Fafanto (resembles a butterfly) represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using these symbols to honor the importance and fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

Collage #5: Dorothy Mae Johnson Gartin’s Daughter – Theresa B. Gartin Leeke

This collage celebrates my mother Theresa B. Gartin Leeke as Dorothy Mae Johnson Gartin’s daughter. It includes two Ghanaian Adinkra symbols: 1) Obaatan Awaamu represents a mother’s love, care, protection, and selfless devotion and 2) Fafanto (resembles a butterfly) represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using these symbols to honor the importance and fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

Collage #6: Theresa B. Gartin Leeke’s Daughter – Ananda Kiamsha Madelyn Cheryl Leeke

This collage celebrates the relationship I have with my mother and ancestor, Theresa B. Gartin Leeke. It includes two Ghanaian Adinkra symbols: 1) Obaatan Awaamu represents a mother’s love, care, protection, and selfless devotion and 2) Fafanto (resembles a butterfly) represents gentleness, tenderness, vulnerability, fragility, and the delicate nature of life. It reminds people to take great care of themselves, especially when they experience change. I am using these symbols to honor the importance and fragile nature of the mother-daughter relationship. I also want to remind women of African descent to mother themselves with love and great care, especially when they feel vulnerable.

FEBRULLAGE COLLAGES

Day #1 Prompt: BOOM

My collage celebrates what the ancestral boom sounds and looks like in my life. It features Ghanaian Adinkra symbols, black and white family photos of ancestors on my mom Theresa’s side, and photos of two dancers from Balé Folclórico da Bahia’s performance honoring Yemanya, the goddess of the ocean and motherhood, and Oshun, the goddess of sweet waters, love, and beauty. It also features a photo of the Iemanja sculpture in Rio Vermelho, my favorite neighborhood in Salvador da Bahia, Brazil. Here’s a fun fact: the woman playing the piano is my mom Theresa when she was a young girl.

Day #2 Prompt: TOAST

My collage is a toast to the love, friendship, and ancestral connection I share with my mom Theresa B. Gartin Leeke. It includes my drawing of Yemanya, the goddess of the ocean and motherhood and photos from my graduation ball at Howard University School of Law and 2025 trip to Salvador da Bahia, Brasil.

Day #3 Prompt: BALLET

My collage celebrates my connection to Yemanya/Iemanja and Oshun/Oxum, the West African Yoruba Orishas/Orixas that embody aspects of water and feminine power. Oshun is the goddess of sweet waters, love, beauty, and fertility. She is often associated with the colors gold and yellow. Yemanya is the goddess of the ocean, motherhood, and family. She is often represented by the colors blue and white. They guided my womanline ancestors and introduced themselves to me in my creativity (poetry, creative writing, and wire sculptures) in 1992.

In 2023 and 2025, I traveled to Salvador da Bahia, Brasil to celebrate Festa de Iemanjá (Yemanya’s Festival on February 2) with Ronnell Perry’s AfroBuenaventura Transformative Travel experience called Ancestral Spirits. During both trips, I went to see Balé Folclórico da Bahia‘s performances which celebrates the Orishas/Orixas. The Portuguese word Balé means ballet.

I took several photos of the dancers that portrayed Iemanjá/Yemanja and Oxum/Oshun. I added their photos to the collage below. I also included a photo of an Afro Brazilian woman who was standing near me on the beach during Festa de Iemanjá  in Salvador last year.

Day #4 Prompt: BROCCOLI

My collage celebrates my Great Grandmother Ida Mae Farmer Gartin’s commitment to eating healthy which was rooted in her spiritual life as a 7th Day Adventist in Indianapolis, Indiana. Great Grandmother Ida Mae is one of my wellness sheroes. She reminds me to live a healthy life by taking care of my body with healthy food and regular exercise.

YOUR INVITATION

I invite you to join me in going SLOW, being STILL, and taking time to LISTEN to your inner wisdom.

Need help? Click the button below for my mindfulness and self-care resources

Personal and Ancestral Resilience Reflection Questions

1. A personal legacy of resilience includes past experiences of overcoming adversity, facing challenges, and coping with change. Think back to one moment in your life when you overcame adversity, faced a challenge or navigated change. How did it make you stronger?

2. An ancestral legacy of resilience is the strength of the people in our family, community, and culture who overcame adversity, faced challenges, and navigated change. They are our sheroes, heroes, and theyroes. Pick one person you admire in your family, community or culture for overcoming adversity, facing a challenge or navigating change. What did they teach you?

One Last Thing!

Let’s work together in 2026 and beyond.

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Mindful Creativity Video: Celebrate National Poetry Month with Present Moment Awareness Poem

As we close out National Poetry Month in April and prepare for National Meditation Month in May, I decided to share a video of my poem “Present Moment Awareness” from my mindful creativity memoir, That Which Awakens Me (available of Amazon) My poem celebrates what happens inside of me when I meditate. May it inspire you to take a moment to breathe deeply, meditate, and embrace #ThrivingMindfully in all you are, think, say, and do.

 

 

 

 

 

Poetry Month Day #30: “Fulfillment” Poem

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Happy Day #30 of National Poetry Month!

“Fulfillment” is today’s poem.

Fulfillment 

My heart opens.
I bloom and express my flower child spirit.
I AM daring to live differently than I have in the past.
Committed to being in the present.
Affirming my highest good in the future while being grateful for my soul’s fulfillment.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Poetry Month Day #29: “Forward” Poem

Happy Day #29 of National Poetry Month!

“Forward” is today’s poem. It was inspired by wisdom quotes that I read on author Panache Desai’s Facebook page.

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Forward

The time has come.
So I surrender and allow the energy of divine order to move me forward.
Forward into the full expression of ME!

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Photo Credit: http://www.panachedesai.com

Poetry Month Day #28: “Starting Over” Poem

Happy Day #28 of National Poetry Month!

Today’s poem is entitled “Starting Over.” It was inspired by several wisdom quotes posted on author Panache Desai’s Facebook page.

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Starting Over

My life as I know it has died.
My past has served its purpose.
Creator is calling me to begin within.
It’s been hard to admit what’s happening.
It’s been hard to release what no longer works because I fear change.
The more I resist, the harder I struggle to breathe in peace.
The day comes when I must choose life over death.
So I let go and surrender to the unknown.
My path is unclear.
It is calling me to start over with faith, trust, and belief in Creator as my source.
It is reminding me life is an opportunity to grow at all times.
I bless my past and wave goodbye as I walk into the next chapter of my life.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Photo Credit: http://www.panachedesai.com

Poetry Month Day #27 – “Sleep” Poem

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Happy Day #27 of National Poetry Month!

“Sleep” is today’s poem.

Sleep

The best thing I can do is prepare my sacred trinity for a deep sleep with restorative yoga.
The kind that relaxes each part of my body.
The kind that calls my mind to surrender to the sound of each deep breath.
The kind that opens my heart to the Creator’s grace and my ears to divine wisdom.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Poetry Month Day #26: “Self-Care” Poem

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Happy Day #26 of National Poetry Month!

“Self-Care” is today’s poem.

Self Care

My body signals it is tired.
I turn to my yoga mat for comfort.
Yin yoga, Reiki, and meditation prepare me for deep relaxation.
I chant a series of OMs and dedicate my practice to the restoration of my peace of mind.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Poetry Month Day #25: “Kind” Poem

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Happy Day #25 of National Poetry Month!

“Kind” is today’s poem.

Kind

“Be kind to yourself,” the voice whispers.
I keep moving.
Ignoring the voice.
She whispers, “Did you hear me? Be kind to yourself.”
I stop, listen, and ask, “How?”

She answers with a recipe of kindness.
I write it down in my journal,
Be kind and slow down so you can be with yourself.
Be kind and slow down so you can hear yourself clearly.
In this space, feel what you are feeling.
Don’t glaze over it.
Think what you are thinking.
Say what needs to be said in your own words.
Reflect with kindness.
Rest with ease.
Be kind.
You are the only you have.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Poetry Month Day #24: “Unplug”

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Happy Day #24 of National Poetry Month!

Today’s poem is entitled “Unplug.”

Unplug

Step back
Take a moment
5 minutes
30 minutes
1 hour
5 hours
A whole day
A weekend
A week
A month or more
To unplug from your digital devices
To unplug from your online life
Rest
Recharge
Do it on a regular basis

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Poetry Month Day #23: “Path” Poem

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Happy Day #23 of National Poetry Month!

Today’s poem is entitled “Path.” It was inspired by Deepak Chopra’s wisdom quote above.

Path

Life carries me as I carry it.
I walk a path where change is constant.
Sometimes it gets messy, overwhelming, and scary.
Moments appear and offer learning opportunities that stretch me beyond my wildest imagination.
I go within to a place where I can surrender and gain guidance.
I come back to the world with greater faith and confidence.
With grace and gratitude I allow my path to unfold.

Copyright 2015 by Madelyn C. Leeke. All rights reserved.

Photo Credit: http://www.deepakchopra.com