Excerpt from Chapter 1 of My New Book – That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery

Happy Monday!

Today I thought I would share an excerpt from my new book, That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery(Summer 2009 – iUniverse, Inc.).   I decided to post the quotes that introduce Chapter 1 and two poems.  Note that I use six-word memoirs (http://www.smithmag.net/sixwords) as chapter titles.  I fell in love with six-word memoirs last year.  They really helped me climb out of a serious writer’s block.  Author Lori Tharp (www.loritharp.com) introduced them to me during a memoir writing workshop held at my church, All Souls Church (www.all-souls.org) in October 2008. 

Let me know what you think about Chapter 1’s six-word memoir title, quotes, and poems.

Enjoy!

Peace and Creativity,

Ananda

 

Excerpt from That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery(Summer 2009 – iUniverse, Inc.)

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke

Chapter One: Honoring Ancestors. Family. History. Cultural Legacies.

“If you look deeply into the palm of your hand, you will see your parents and all generations of your ancestors.  All of them are alive in this moment.  Each is present in your body.  You are the continuation of each of these people.”  Thich Nhat Hanh, Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, activist, and author

“I feel like the ancestors brought us here and they expect great things.  They expect us to say what we think and live how we feel and follow the hard paths that bring us near joy.” Drew Dellinger, European American poet, teacher, and activist

“Family represents a collection of individuals who are committed and bound together always and forever to provide love and support to one another.”  John F. Leeke, African American educator, organizational development consultant, and entrepreneur

 “I think knowing one’s history leads one to act in a more enlightened fashion.”  John Hope Franklin, African American historian

 “We are deeply, passionately connected to black women whose sense of aesthetics, whose commitment to ongoing creative work, inspires and sustains. We reclaim their history, call their names, state their particulars, to gather and remember to share our inheritance.” bell hooks, African American author, poet, professor, and cultural critic

“Cultural legacies are powerful forces. They have deep roots and long lives. They persist, generation after generation, virtually intact, even as the economic and social and demographic conditions that spawned them have vanished, and they play such a role in directing attitudes and behavior that we cannot make sense of our world without them.”  Malcolm Gladwell, British-born Canadian author

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Two Poems from Chapter 1

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Me praying to the ancestors at Elmina Slave Castle in Cape Coast, Ghana – December 2003

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Me praying to my female ancestors who were enslaved in the female slave cell located in Elmina Slave Castle in Cape Coast, Ghana – December 2003

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Me standing in front of the Elmina Slave Castle in Cape Coast, Ghana – December 2003

 

POEM #1

Elmina: Homage to the Ancestors

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In the middle of the night Spirit woke me and instructed me to do two things.

Cut my locs and go home to sit, pray, release, and renew on holy ground in the midst and comfort of my ancestors.

So the next morning, I made two phone calls.

One to my hairdresser.

The other to my travel agent.

 By the end of that week, my locs were cut.

My head resembled that of a Tibetan monk who had gone four weeks without a shaving.

My travel itinerary was confirmed for Ghana and a day was planned for a visit to Elmina Castle, the holy ground where my ancestors’ spirits reside.

I was going home.

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How can a slave castle built in 1482 by the Portuguese traders as the first European slave trading post in all of sub-Saharan Africa be my holy ground or my home?

How can one of the many slave castles holding horrific memories of the African holocaust called the Maafa, a disaster, a terrible occurrence be sacred space for me?

How can I separate the inhumane acts and suffering of more than 10 million people of African descent who passed through Elmina’s door of no return?

 The answer is two fold – Spirit and Ancestors.

They call me home.

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I came seeking renewal and release.

As I walked through the Castle, looked out into the vastness of the Atlantic Ocean, and prayed in the dungeons, I heard their voices.

They urged me to give them my burdens.

They lovingly assumed my pain.

They reminded me of Sankofa, the Andinkra symbol that represents learning from your past in order to chart your future.

 They are my past. 

I am their future, grateful and humbled to reap and enjoy the benefits of their love, faith, greatness, strength, humility, and wisdom.

 Because of their living.

Because of their suffering.

Because of their dying.

I am free.

 

 

POEM #2

They Want Me to Hear Their Songs

Inspired by artist Elizabeth Catlett’s I Have Given the World My Songs (1948, linocut).

Their voices are buried deep in my belly. 

When will I let them out?

They want to sing their songs, but I fear their voices may be too loud for me to hear.

They speak to my spirit and remind me that their songs are my legacy.

Yes I know.

Yes I know.

Yes I know.

But I’m not sure I want to hear what happened to my great-great-grandmother Millie Ann Gartin before she was freed.

The rest of my womanline rises up in my gut and demands that I allow them to sing their stories – the good, not so good, and in between. 

They refuse to leave me alone.

I try to run and hide, but they won’t let me escape.

They surround me and begin telling me about the sacrifices they made so I could be free.

Before they disappear, they say a prayer.

“Beloved one, so much has happened. We don’t mean to frighten you, but our stories must be told.  You must tell them. In telling them, you will access wisdom from the way we lived and what we learned from our elders.  Our voices will become your voice.

You will begin to carry our full legacy. It is our gift to you.  We pray that you accept it.

Ase. Amen.”

Ananda Hosts BAP Living Radio on 7/5@ 7pm EST – Black Women Bloggers Share Lessons Learned at the 2009 Blogging While Brown Conference

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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

PRLog (Press Release) – Jul 03, 2009 – Washington, DC – Author/Artist/Blogger Ananda Leeke will host the fifth episode of BAP Living Radio’s series about Black women in social media on July 5 at 7:00 p.m. The theme is “Lessons Learned from the 2009 Blogging While Brown Conference.” The guest panelists attended the 2009 Blogging While Brown Conference (www.bloggingwhilebrown.com) on June 19 and 20 in Chicago, Illinois. They include :

-Senam Amegashie
http://www.tweetmeblack.com

-April Davis
http://www.blog-aroundharlem.com

-Faith Dow
http://www.actsoffaithinloveandlife.blogspot.com

-Sabrina Miller
http://www.hitmebackblog.blogspot.com

-Telisha Ng
http://goddessintellect.wordpress.com

-Megan Smith
http://www.megansminute.com

-Talia Whyte
www.taliawhyte.com

Visit www.talkshoe.com/tc/18598 to listen to the show.

Leeke will also host the sixth episode of BAP Living Radio’s series about Black women in social media on July 19 at 7:00 p.m. The episode will feature a discussion with attorney mom bloggers Justices Fergie, Jonesie, and Ny about their MamaLaw blog (www.mamalaw.com), MamaLaw Media Group, and Blogalicious(http://www.blogaliciousweekend.com), the first annual conference for women of color bloggers held on October 9 to October 11 in Atlanta, Georgia. Click here to listen to the show: www.talkshoe.com/tc/18598.

BAP Living Radio affirms the lives of women of African descent who self-identify as Black American Princesses (BAPs) and educated Black women (EBW). BAP Living Radio features programs about self-love, self-care, spirituality, health, finances, social media, politics, technology, beauty, fashion, art, music, culture, community service, creativity, fitness, travel, and more.

BAP Living Radio supports the following BAP Living social media projects:

-BAP Living social networking site – http://baplivingforbapsandebw.ning.com

-BAP Living Facebook Group – http://www.new.facebook.com/group.php?gid=15124364305

Wreck This Journal – Week 4 Update

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Hi All,

Last Friday marked week four for my Next Chapter Book Blogging Group. We are having a grand time with the book Wreck This Journal by Keri Smith.  Click here to see what my creative sistaloves are doing:   http://tnc-wreckthisjournal.blogspot.com/2009/06/wreck-this-journal-week-4.html.

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This morning I woke up feeling very anxious about a series of changes I am experiencing.  These changes are transforming the landscape of what my current life looks like.  They are pushing me out of the cocoon of a ten-year comfort zone.  Sometimes they scare me.  They show me my fears.  They make me revisit old wounds.  I don’t like them, but they don’t care. They are happening and will continue to happen.  How do I want to respond?  That’s the question I asked myself over and over again before I got out of bed and headed to the yoga mat.  As I came into child’s pose, I asked Creator for guidance and help.  The music of Jai Uttal kept me company.  It seeped into my throat and before long I found myself chanting Sita Ram over and over again. The chanting helped ease some of my anxious feelings.  Feeling more grounded, I began doing a series of 10 sun salutations. At the end, I sat down on my mat and did several rounds of alternate nostril breathing before chanting Sita Ram with my mala beads 108 times. 

When my morning practice was over, I headed back to my bedroom to grab my Wreck This Journal book.  Me and the book walked into the kitchen and sat down at a table filled with magic markers, scissors, gluesticks, and magazine clippings.  I noticed a quote by Dante and decided to paste it on the cover of the book: “Follow your own path and let people talk.”  I wondered what is my path in the midst of change?  Four wisdom phrases emerged:

1) Keep your heart open.

2) Surrender and do not resist.

3) Embrace and enjoy the destruction and release of your old life as an opportunity to actively witness and participate in the transformation process.

4) Give thanks and be grateful for all changes even the ones that make you panic,  scare you into old wounds, and cause you to feel doubts and fears.

Enjoy your week!

Peace, Surrender, Change, Release, Transformation, and Creativity,

Ananda

The Ananda Leeke Show launches on June 30@8pm EST.

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Me and my best brothalove friend/book editor extraordinaire Wayne P. Henry

 

Tune into the very first episode of my new creative baby — The Ananda Leeke Show (http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/15820) on June 30 at 8:00 p.m. EST. Wayne P. Henry, my best brothalove friend and book editor extraordinaire, will join me for a discussion about my insights on writing my books, That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery (Summer 2009 – iUniverse, Inc.) and Love’s Troubadours – Karma: Book One (August 2007 – iUniverse, Inc. – www.lovestroubadours.com). Our conversation will explore the hardest and greatest moments in my writing process, 7 lessons I will never forget, and the main reason I choose to write books. Click here to listen to the show:  http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/15820If you miss the live recording, don’t panic.  You can download a recording to your computer or iPod after the show has aired. 

More information about Wayne He is a writer and contributor to the book How We Love – Letters to the Next Generation edited by Karyn Langhorne Folan, Wendy Coakley-Thompson, and Tanara E. Bowie.  How We Love is a collection of letters and lessons published by the Capital Bookfest in 2008.   

Click here to watch a YouTube video (2 minutes, 10 seconds) that features me explaining how I prepare to write: www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1v0nMObacY. The video was filmed during the question and answer session of a book launch party for my novel Love’s Troubadours – Karma: Book One (www.lovestroubadours.com) on November 18, 2007, at Mocha Hut Cafe in Washington, DC.

RIP Michael Jackson – A Major Force of Creative Inspiration in My Life

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Greetings All,

My heart broke open when I heard the news that Michael Jackson made his transition yesterday.  I wasn’t prepared. None of us were.  The shock continues to travel through my spirit, mind, and body.  This is a hard one to take.  Michael and his brothers played such a major role in my childhood, adolescence, college and law school experiences, and adult life.  I feel like I grew up with him.  His music and creativity inspired me to tap into and express my own creativity.  I will miss his presence. 

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Why is Michael special in your life?

What are  your favorite Michael moments and songs?

My favorite songs are “ABC” and “Ben.”  I also love the albums Off the Wall and Thriller. His Thriller videos are incroyable as the French say!  His performance in The Wiz was incredible. 

May Michael’s spirit rest in peace.  May his children, family, friends, and fans remember the beauty of his creative soul.

Peace, Serenity, and MJ Inspired-Creativity,

Ananda

PS: My cousin Lori sent me a link to All MJ Radio, an AOL Radio station dedicated to Michael Jackson.  I am listening to it all day to stay connected to Michael’s creative energy and inspiration.  Click here to listen: http://music.aol.com/radioguide/bb. There are commercials on the radio station. If that bothers you, create a MJ station on Pandora.com – www.pandora.com.

 

Just For Women Manifesto – Poetry Marries Collage

Hi All,

Yesterday I posted a collage with a poem made from magazine clippings.  Some folks have asked for a typed version of the poem. See below. Please share it with others.  Consider making one of your own.  If you do, feel free to post it in the comments section below. 

Thanks for stopping by.

Peace and Creativity,

Ananda

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Just for Women Manifesto by Ananda Leeke (based on collage)

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke

 

Practice loving yourself 

Drawn inward take a personal time out.

Age gracefully.

Experience your own divine nature.

Become yourself.

Reserve a day for yourself.

Giggle.

Living your best life.

Share. Serve. Make a difference.

Think the environment is important.

Our roots make us stronger.

Love.

Be more sensuous.

Discover the power to create.

Go ahead … PLAY.

Join the movement.

The Business of Being Ananda Leeke – Part 1

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Narrative: Memories. In Your Own Words, a six-word memoir

collage by Ananda Leeke

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke

Happy Thursday!

Two weeks ago my life coach Yael gave me several homework assignments.  One assignment involved me mapping my goals, priorities, and to do list activities.  Yael said this assignment would give me a picture of what I am doing in my life.  I call it The Business of Being Ananda Leeke.  Yes it is a business being me!  And it is a business building and maintaining the Ananda Leeke brand

This morning I got up early again with more energy.  I made some peppermint tea to keep me company as I sat at my kitchen table journaling about about my goals, priorities, and to do list activities for July, August, September, October, November, and December.   Several key phrases emerged from my journaling:  

  • mission
  • strategy-driven approach
  • reality check-ins  
  • desired outcomes
  • bottom liners
  • satisfaction
  • celebration

“More words … blah … blah … more thinking … more work” is what I thought when I reviewed my writing.  So I put my pen down and walked over to my yoga mat.  After doing a few restorative poses, I moved into my ten sun salutations.  When I finished, I sat on my meditation cushion and did several rounds of alternate nostril breathing.   That really opened my heart.  I took it a step further and grabbed my mala beads for a mantra chanting session that ended with several quiet OMs. 

After my morning yoga, I returned to my kitchen for breakfast.  While eating my oatmeal, I realized that The Business of Being Ananda Leeke  deserves a strategy-driven approach that incorporates my heart and mind.  There must be balance between the two.  A Yin and Yang approach to be-ing me. 

Stay tuned for more updates on The Business of Being Ananda Leeke!

Peace and Creativity,

Ananda

PS:  Be sure to tune into the first episode of The Ananda Leeke Show, an online radio program that celebrates creativity in everyday life, on June 30 at 8pm EST on Talkshoe.com.  I will discuss my insights on writing my new book, That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery(Summer 2009 Release – iUniverse, Inc.).  Click here to listen to the show:  http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/15820.  If you miss it, you can listen to a recording several minutes after the show airs.  You can also download the show to your computer or iPod via iTunes.

Summer Wisdom Collage

Happy Wednesday All,

This morning I woke up with a lot of energy. So I made several collages for my Sisterhood, the Blog site and a summer wisdom collage.  The wisdom messages that selected me (that’s right … they selected me) were exactly what I needed.  Check them out below.  Do you have any summer wisdom? 

Peace and Creativity,

Ananda

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Summer Wisdom collage by Ananda Leeke

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke.

 

My Summer Wisdom Messages:

1) What I know for sure … love your body!!!!

2) Better health means more energy to do things you want to do.

3) She’s got the power.

4) Change, in all shapes and sizes, can definitely bring out our deepest fears–but it also offers us vital new encounters with the bountiful magic of life.

New Radio Show – Tune into Sisterhood, the Blog Radio on 6.24@ 8pm – Sisterhood 2009: What does it mean to be a feminist today?

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Sisterhood, the Blog Manifesto collage by Ananda Leeke

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke

 

Tune into the first episode of Sisterhood, the Blog Radio (http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/42015) on Wednesday, June 24th at 8:00 p.m. “Sisterhood 2009: What does it mean to be a feminist today?” is the theme. Join me (www.anandaleeke.com) for a one-on-one interview with Jennifer Nedeau, Women’s Rights Blogger for Change.org – http://womensrights.change.org.  Click here to listen to the show: http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/42015.

Sisterhood, the Blog Radio is a monthly radio show hosted by Talkshoe.com. It features one-on-one conversations with women about sisterhood, self-discovery, self-expression, spirituality, self-care, self-expression, social justice advocacy, and social media.

If you are on Facebook, join the Sisterhood, the Blog Group: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=23050254985.

Be sure to follow Sisterhood, the Blog on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/sisterhdtheblog.

Visit Sisterhood, the Blog on WordPress.com: http://sisterhoodtheblog.wordpress.com.

Black Women on TV – Who Will Tell My Sista Stories? – Excerpt from my new book, That Which Awakens Me

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Cast of Cosby Show featuring Claire Huxtable 

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Cast of A Different World

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Hi All,

My father sent me a link to Echoes Of TV’s First Lady – Michelle Obama’s Last True Cultural Antecedent Is ‘Cosby’s’ Clair Huxtable by Robin Givhan (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/06/18/AR2009061803999.html?referrer=emailarticle).  What a juicy article!  I copied and pasted in the article  below.   As I read it, I started thinking about “Who Will Tell My Sista Stories?,” a poetical reflection that I recently wrote and  included in my upcoming book, That Which Awakens Me: A Creative Woman’s Poetic Memoir of Self-Discovery(Summer 2009).  It discusses the presence and absence of Black women’s stories in television, radio, and film.   A copy of the poetical reflection is included below.  I invite you to  read the Washington Post article and my poetical reflection.  Let me know what you think.

Peace and Creativity,

Ananda

 

Who Will Tell My Sista Stories? by Ananda Leeke

Copyright 2009 by Madelyn C. Leeke

Growing up in the 1970s, Thelma and Penny on “Good Times” were the only young African American women I remember seeing on television.

Although I admired their spunky personalities, I found it difficult to relate to their lives in a Chicago public housing project. 

In my sophomore year of college, something amazing happened.

“The Cosby Show” came on the scene.

It introduced me to myself.

That was the first time I saw images of my childhood and family on the television screen.

I was able to connect with the character Denise especially when she decided to attend Hillman College, a historically Black college.

Three years later, “A Different World” was created.

That’s when Mr. Cosby passed the torch to Debbie Allen, Susan Fales-Hills, and a team of talented writers and cast members.

They gave me multiple images of myself: Jaleesa, Whitley, Freddie, Kim, and Lena.

For six years, I sopped up their juicy stories.

When both shows faded from the scene, I found comfort in Yvette Lee Bowser’s “Living Single.”

The show helped Bowser make history as the first African American woman in TV history to create her own series.

The twentysomething adventures of “Living Single” characters, Khadijah, Max, Synclaire, and Regine mirrored my own life and the lives of my girlfriends.

We were able to hang out for five years straight.

I endured a two year “colored girl TV” break until Mara Brock Akil launched “Girlfriends” and Tracey Edmonds and Felicia D. Henderson gave birth to “Soul Food.”

“Girlfriends” and “Soul Food” celebrated my life, loves, losses, and female friendships as a thirtysomething.

Lynn and Joan were my favorite characters on “Girlfriends.”

Maxine and Teri were my favorites on “Soul Food.”

Bowser came back with “Half and Half.”

Watching the characters, Mona and Dee Dee interact as sisters helped me see different sides of my personality.

Jada Pinkett-Smith delivered “All of Us,” a television show she co-created with her husband, Will.

TV Land appeared to be just fine.

And then it happened.

“Soul Food,” the longest-running Black hour-long drama ever on television, said goodbye.

More bad news followed when “Half and Half,” “Girlfriends,” and “All of Us” were abruptly cancelled. 

Shonda Grimes offered a glimmer of hope with her characters, Dr. Miranda Bailey on “Grey’s Anatomy” and Dr. Naomi Bennett on “Private Practice.”

Akil did the same with “The Game.”

Unfortunately, their efforts could not satisfy my hunger for stories about my life as a Black woman from the post-Civil Rights generation.

So I turned to print media: O, The Oprah Magazine, Essence, Heart & Soul, UPTOWN, Upscale, Honey, Today’s Black Woman, and Suede.

When my cravings for stories got the best of me, I rented some of my favorite movies: Love Jones, Best Man, Love & Basketball, Brown Sugar, and Something New.

They led me to a delicious series of poetry, fiction, and nonfiction books.

Inner-Course: A Plea for Real Love by Toni Blackman

Selah’s Bed by Jenonyne Adams

A Love Noire and Hunger by Erica Simone Turnipseed

All the Joy You Can Stand: 101 Sacred Power Principles for Making Joy Real in Your Life by Debrena Jackson Gandy

Having What Matters: The Black Woman’s Guide to Creating the Life You Really Want by Monique A. Greenwood

Having It All?: Black Women and Success by Veronica Chambers

Sacred Woman by Queen Afua

being black by Angel Kyodo Williams

Longing To Tell: Black Women Talk About Sexuality and Intimacy by Tricia Rose

The BAP Handbook: The Official Guide to the Black American Princess by Kalyn Johnson, Tracey Lewis, Karla Lightfoot, and Ginger Wilson

Kinky Gazpacho: Life, Love & Spain by Lori L. Tharps

Naked: Black Women Bare All About Their Skin, Hair, Hips, Lips, and Other Parts edited by Ayana Byrd and Akiba Solomon

The more I read, the more I realized I needed to identify alternative sources for my sista stories.

So I tuned into NPR’s News & Notes with Farai Chideya and Tell Me More with Michel Martin.

Both radio shows exposed me to blogs and Internet radio programs created and controlled by Black women.

I fell head over heels in love with Gina McCauley’s What About Our Daughters and Michelle Obama Watch blogs.

McCauley’s blogs and Black Women’s Roundtable Internet radio show introduced me to a new world of Black women’s voices.

They inspired me to take responsibility for staying informed.

So I did some research and discovered a plethora of Black women’s blogs, e-zines, radio shows, podcasts, videos, and social networking sites that address issues I am interested in.

From my research, I selected several e-zines and blogs to read on a regular basis, joined many social networking sites, watched numerous videos, and became a regular listening audience member for a few radio shows and podcasts. 

I even wrote and published my first novel and launched several radio shows, social networking sites, and blogs to document sista stories.

It’s a good thing I did all of this before News & Notes was cancelled.

The one thing I have learned is a sista is the only one who can tell her story.

Now that social media is leveling the playing field, we have more tools and access to distribute our sista stories. 

The only thing left for us to do is to just do it!

 

 Echoes Of TV’s First Lady – Michelle Obama’s Last True Cultural Antecedent Is ‘Cosby’s’ Clair Huxtable by Robin Givhan 

Friday, June 19, 2009

So far, the first lady has chosen to be a food bank volunteer with an outsize entourage and an education activist with the largest soapbox imaginable. But Michelle Obama also fills a role that is not of her choosing but that may, in fact, be the most influential: She serves as a symbol of middle-class progress, feminist achievement, affirmative-action success and individual style.

And she has done all this on the world stage . . . while being black.

Time and again, observers grasp for adjectives to describe Obama’s combination of professional accomplishment and soccer-mom maternalism. It’s no wonder so many eye her with awe and disbelief. Or why a minority still view her with suspicion. There have been few broad cultural precedents for what she represents.

Historically, television has been more progressive than reality, preparing a society for the moment when what only existed in the shadows surges into the spotlight. From “Soap” to “Will & Grace,” TV helped people envision gay couples living picket-fence lives. “Maude” and daytime soap operas raised the topic of abortion before it became a political wedge issue. Television made the case for the first female commander in chief. And popular culture has more than once suggested that the idea of an African American president wasn’t so far-fetched. But it rarely introduced viewers to anyone like Michelle Obama.

The last similarly accomplished and wholesome black woman to enter the homes of TV audiences — both black and white, in small towns and big cities — was Clair Huxtable, the matriarch of “The Cosby Show.” It is a cultural comparison more apt than the one made to Jackie Kennedy, which is rooted in little more than the two first ladies being mothers of young children and their affection for sleeveless dresses.

Television, in particular, speaks to viewers intimately, in the privacy of their homes, building long-term relationships and weaving complicated narratives. People discuss the lives of TV characters — from soap opera stars to reality-show contestants — with the kind of emotional empathy normally saved for family members. Syndication allows characters to live forever and connect to multiple generations, whether it is the blended family of “The Brady Bunch” or the codependent New Yorkers on “Seinfeld.”

Even as viewing habits have become more fragmented through cable and DVRs, TV still serves as a lingua franca. It can gently and affably prod disparate groups toward greater tolerance and acceptance. TV builds kinship.

But most of the prominent portrayals of black women on television are men in corpulent drag (Madea), strutting tarts (“The Real Housewives of Atlanta“) or emotionless law enforcement officers (Lt. Anita Van Buren of “Law & Order”). In its most enlightened moments, popular culture presents black women as strident taskmaster with the heart of gold — see Dr. Miranda Bailey of “Grey’s Anatomy.”

In a recent essay for the Nation, Columbia law professor Patricia Williams shared her frustrations about popular culture’s failure to present more images of the sort that Obama reflects. Black women — and women of color, in general — still are dogged by the tropes that have haunted them for generations, she wrote. But instead of images such as Mammy and Prissy from “Gone With the Wind,” contemporary women must deal with “the adventures of Flavor Flav and Strom Thurmond” as well as “depictions from Don Imus and the minstrelsy of Tyler Perry.”

“Where, for heaven’s sake, is a picture of black femininity (in particular, that of darker-skinned, non-tragic femininity) that might signify beauty, chic, elegance, vulnerability, sophistication?”

Where are the images that celebrate the educated black woman? “The jurisprudence of the entire 20th century was about black people trying to get into school,” Williams said in a telephone interview. “That’s invisible.” Niche media have tried to showcase the black professional class — from the stories of uplift in Ebony magazine to “Harlem Heights,” a reality show about 20-something buppies that debuted this spring on BET, a rarity on a black-oriented cable network often criticized by viewers for pandering to the worst stereotypes of African Americans. There have been shows that have spoken knowingly to a predominantly black audience, such as “Living Single” and “Girlfriends.” “Soul Food” and “Lincoln Heights” address the small segmented audiences of cable.

Only Audra McDonald’s character on ABC’s “Private Practice” — a divorced, stylish doctor with a young daughter, a vibrant social life and a healthy relationship with her ex-husband — really reflects a generation of black women with advanced degrees, solid self-esteem and no anger issues.

But TV audiences have to go back to “The Cosby Show” to find a close facsimile to what Obama represents both professionally and personally, and that’s going back more than 17 years. Clair Huxtable — the stylish mother, wife and lawyer — remains a lonely figure in popular culture.

As Seen on TV

“The Cosby Show,” a sitcom about a black American family with five children, a lawyer-mom played by Phylicia Rashad and comedian Bill Cosby as the doctor-dad, ran from 1984 to 1992. Inspired by Cosby’s monologues on child-rearing, the show was an anomaly when it premiered in the wake of TV series such as “Sanford and Son,” “Good Times” and “The Jeffersons,” which told the stories of down-and-out black Americans and upwardly mobile ones with equal parts slapstick and buffoonery.

“The Cosby Show” was doggedly upper-middle class in its sensibility. Every detail, from the choice of artwork in the Huxtable living room to the use of jazz in its opening credits to references to historically black colleges, spoke of the “Talented Tenth,” a functional, culturally proud segment of the African American community that did not make the evening news.

In its first season, “The Cosby Show” finished third in the ratings. For the next four seasons, it was the top-rated series on television. Over the course of its run, it revived the situation-comedy format, resuscitated a flailing NBC, sparked conversations about race and made Cosby into America’s dad.

Author Susan Fales-Hill, 46, began her career on the show as an apprentice and then a writer. Later, she became executive producer and head writer for the spinoff series “A Different World,” about life on a fictional, historically black college campus through which viewers could see work-study students and trust-fund babies.

“There’s something that happens when you validate the existence of someone by visually representing them,” she says. “What people see, they believe.”

And what they do not see on a regular basis, they assume to be rare or even nonexistent.

Fales-Hill could write from her own experience. She is the biracial daughter of actress Josephine Premice, a contemporary of Diahann Carroll and Lena Horne. She is a published author and comes from a background of private schools.

During her time on “Cosby,” Fales-Hill remembers people telling her that families like the one on the show didn’t exist, but her rejoinder was her personal story. “I had people tell me this is like a white family,” Fales-Hill recalls. “But ‘Cosby’ brought the dirty secret of America — the black bourgeoisie — out of the closet.”

When “Cosby” went off the air, the lesson Hollywood took was not that stories about functional black professionals can have broad appeal. It was that Bill Cosby has broad appeal, that stand-up comics could sustain entire sitcoms and that situation comedies can draw large audiences. “The Cosby Show” opened the door for “Grace Under Fire,” “Home Improvement,” “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,” “Cybill” and “Roseanne.” And Cosby went on to star in another self-named comedy, which ran from 1996 to 2000. (And once again, Rashad played his wife, although the role was a modest one.)

By the end of the millennium, white, angst-ridden yuppies and white, wacky singles were dominating the airwaves. “Survivor” debuted in 2000 to launch the reality-show juggernaut. And women like Fales-Hill largely vanished from popular culture.

“There’s a generation with very little exposure to the black professional class, and they stand in amazement,” Fales-Hill says. “People say, ‘You’re so articulate.’ And it’s because I can string a sentence together!”

In a culture in which every white woman is presumed to be Everywoman until proven out of the mainstream, Obama has brought the normalcy of black women into the broader social consciousness. All it took were her two Ivy League degrees, a six-figure boardroom salary, a Norman Rockwell family, soccer-mom bona fides and an ability to dress herself without the aid of an entourage.

In many ways, the first lady has made people see — really see — black women for the first time. For example, when a black model appeared on the May cover of Vogue, news articles credited the “Obama effect,” ignoring the concerted lobbying by fashion industry activists that began long before Barack Obama was even a presidential contender.

The role of style in defining the first lady might easily be dismissed as a distraction from more substantive issues. But Williams says the fan magazine breathlessness is significant because “it implies a kind of parity we really needed.”

Enthusiasm over glossy-magazine beauty as defined by a darker-skinned black woman has to be seen against the backdrop of history, when black women’s appearance was used as a tool of oppression. High culture rhapsodized in love sonnets about ivory complexions, flaxen hair and ruby lips. And today, black women still mostly surface as sidebars in beauty stories.

“Somewhere in the core of it is the question of whether black really is beautiful,” Williams says. “That’s why I think it’s not about superficiality. It’s a precarious moment. Only a minute ago, she was Angela Davis.”

Fighting Stereotypes

In the NAACP’s most recent report on diversity on television, the civil rights organization noted in December that “it is hard to draw any positive conclusions.” And in particular, it pointed to “The Hills” and “Gossip Girls,” which are aimed at a youth market. Viewers in their teens and 20s live in a more diverse society than their parents did. But little had changed since what the NAACP called the “whiteout” years of shows such as “Friends” and “Seinfeld” — and more recently “Sex and the City” and “Lipstick Jungle” — which were situated in the melting pot of New York City but seemed to exist in a parallel, nearly all-white universe.

Hollywood producer Mara Brock Akil was a regular “Sex and the City” viewer. “They were able to show women as layered and flawed — and spending obscene amounts of money on accessories — and still empowered and smart women,” Akil says. “I related to it, but I longed to see myself physically validated, which they rarely did.”

Akil, 39, grew up middle class in the Baldwin Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles and in Kansas City, Mo. But unlike television viewers who find themselves disappointed by network offerings and can only blog about it, Akil had the ability to alter the landscape.

So she created “Girlfriends.” It debuted in 2000 on UPN, a new network that was aggressively courting a black audience. Among black women, it was appointment television. The ongoing saga of Joan (Tracee Ellis Ross) and her trio of friends gave professional, stylish black women a voice on television.

“I almost felt like a documentarian,” Akil says. “I wanted people to know what’s on our mind.”

The show talked about romance and work, and it poked fun at the assumptions about black culture vs. white. Joan, for example, was a huge fan of Celine Dion — because Akil is — as well as more soulful singers such as India.Arie.

“I also wanted to combat a stereotype on TV that black women are either the sister-girl or the asexual judge with no life. I can be fearless at work, but I can also be stupid over a guy. I can be all those things at once. I wanted to show how fashionable we are. The fashion and the femininity, I really wanted to talk about that,” Akil says. “My agenda was to speak to the widest audience possible, but I knew the core would be the African American audience.”

“Girlfriends” ran for eight seasons — eventually moving to CW. In that time, it was a favorite at the BET Honors and the NAACP Image Awards, winning at least five times. It was nominated for only one prime-time Emmy — in 2003, for cinematography. It lost to “Will & Grace.”

The show didn’t have the broad cultural impact of “The Cosby Show,” which, during its eight-year run, won virtually every award possible except a Nobel prize. No other show about the professional black class has made the inroads that “Cosby” did. None of pop culture’s most enduring archetypes of funny, smart, professional, pretty women — from Mary Richards to Murphy Brown to Carrie Bradshaw — have been black.

And Clair Huxtable, despite Rashad’s successes on Broadway, is now most often seen by middle America as the latest Jenny Craig spokeswoman touting her weight loss.